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Want to get lucky? Here's how to increase your chances. 🦋
5 things you have control over to create more luck in your life.
We would like to thank the New York Times for the breaking news alerts this week that revealed US Olympic medal results on multiple occasions, spoiling our prime time viewing. 🤪
On a related note, watching the US Women’s Gymnastics this week gave us big time nostalgia for the 1996 Summer Olympics, if you’re too young to remember, Google Kerri Strug.
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Career Advice: Create your Own Luck
Price Pritchett talks about how luck is like a butterfly. It’s hard to know when it will float by or land. You can’t make it happen, but you can for sure encourage its positive force in your life.
In a workshop I ran a few weeks ago in Indiana, I discussed 5 ways to increase the possibility and probability of seeing your goals come to life, a.k.a. creating "luck."
I will dive into what I believe are 5 important drivers in the work therapy newsletter this week.
Know what you Want…Really!!
Did you know that writing down your goals increases your chance of achieving them by 42%? Resources gravitate towards a defined destination. Take a sheet of paper and write the goals you want to achieve in as much detail as you can. Then place that goal somewhere you can see it every day. I have my goals on a huge post-it note in my office. You can’t miss it.
Relationships Matter
Be someone who helps open doors for others. Stay in touch with your friends. Be a good and kind human. This will naturally increase your chances of a lucky break coming because of a relationship.
Look through the Lens of Possibilities in Setbacks
When things don’t go the way I would choose, I remind myself that it is happening FOR me, not TO me. Failure is on the path to reaching your goals. There is no avoiding it. A question I like to ask myself is, “What is possible now?”
Make Requests
Most acts of generosity are initiated by a request. “Direct requests account for 50% of all charitable donations in the United States.” And to be clear, you aren’t a charity, but don’t expect people to randomly show you acts of generosity without first making a request. Reaching your goals takes some guts. You’ve got this.
Don’t Give Up
Ahh, now this one. This is GOLD. The road to growth is not linear. Life isn’t linear. You will have times where it seems nothing is going your way, and you will want to give up. This is when you lean into fortitude and take one step after another. Check out Abraham Lincoln’s journey!
TL; DR: We can’t control the butterfly, a.k.a luck, and make it land on our shoulders, but we can do things to increase our chances of getting lucky. Know what you want, be a good human who is generous with others, make requests when needed, and don’t give up!
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Resources Worth Your Click
📖 Manifesting isn’t all woo-woo. Mind Magic explores the neuroscience of manifestation and how it changes everything.
🍽️ This sink accessory from Food52 is one of Brooke’s kitchen staples she can’t live without.
🎵We love a hype playlist so here’s one dedicated to Olympians warm up songs.
🏅Women’s Olympic medalist rugby player Ilona Maher is going viral.
Quote of the Week:
I took this photo in the Nike store in Chicago a few weeks back. It belonged in this newsletter.
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