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Career Advice: Donât miss an opportunity to learn from Friends.
Letâs be real: Friends didn't just revolve around six twenty-somethingâs drinking coffee and navigating love livesâit also offered some surprisingly solid career lessons (along with plenty of laugh-out-loud moments). If youâve ever binge-watched Friends and thought, âHey, this could actually help me at work,â youâre not alone! So, grab a cup of coffee and letâs dive into the five best career lessons we can learn from Ross, Rachel, Monica, Chandler, Joey, and Phoebe.
1. âYouâve got to start somewhereââThe Rachel Green Hustle
Friends | NBC Universal via Giphy
Rachel Green went from serving coffee at Central Park (where she was not great at her job, letâs be honest) to working her way up to a glamorous career in fashion. Her journey wasnât smoothâthere were missteps, rejections, and plenty of moments when she could have given up. But she didnât. Her story reminds us that humble beginnings donât define your career path. Itâs all about persistence and growth, whether youâre fetching coffee or nailing that big presentation.
Lesson: Don't be afraid to start at the bottomâyou never know where it might lead!
2. âPivot!â â Ross Gellerâs Flexibility (with Furniture and Life)
Friends | NBC Universal via Giphy
This scene gets us every time. But beyond the laughs, Ross teaches us something important about career success: sometimes, youâve gotta pivot. Whether it's because of changing industries, adopting new technologies, or shifting company goals, adaptability is key.
Like Ross trying (and failing) to move that couch, you wonât always get it right the first time. But with the right mindset, youâll eventually figure it out.
Lesson: Flexibility in your career helps you navigate the unexpectedâeven if it feels like you're stuck in a stairwell with a giant sofa.
3. âHow you doin'?â â The Joey Tribbiani Confidence
Friends | NBC Universal via Giphy
Joey Tribbiani might not have been the sharpest tool in the shed, but one thing he never lacked was confidence. Whether auditioning for roles or making the (hilarious) attempt to learn French, Joeyâs unshakeable belief in himself got him through.
Confidence is key in your career tooâeven when youâre faking it âtil you make it. Channel your inner Joey and approach challenges with self-assurance, even if you're just one "how you doin'?" away from winging it.
Lesson: Sometimes confidence (and a good catchphrase) will open doors faster than expertise alone.
4. âWe were on a break!â â Ross and the Importance of Communication
Friends | NBC Universal via Giphy
While Ross and Rachelâs infamous break debate may never be settled, it serves as a reminder of how crucial communication is. In the workplace, miscommunication can lead to confusion, frustration, and even the occasional âbreakâ between departments (or teammates).
Ross may not have mastered clear communication, but you can communicate openly and frequently with your colleagues to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.
Lesson: Leave nothing ambiguousâclarity is key, whether itâs with your team or your significant other.
5. âI donât even have a âplanââ â Phoebe Buffay and Embracing the Unexpected
Friends | NBC Universal via Giphy
Phoebe Buffay marched to the beat of her own drum (or rather, her own guitar). From smelly cats to quirky one-liners, Phoebe never let lifeâs unpredictability faze her.
Not everything in your career will go according to plan, and thatâs okay. Sometimes the best opportunities come from moments of uncertainty. Like Phoebe, embrace the unexpected and find joy in the journey, even when things donât go as planned.
Lesson: A flexible mindset and openness to new experiences are invaluable in the ever-changing workplace.
6. âEmbrace Your Inner Leaderâ â Monica Gellerâs Take-Charge Attitude
Friends | NBC Universal via Giphy
Monica was the undeniable leader of the groupâwhether it was organizing Thanksgiving dinner or running a restaurant kitchen.
Her natural ability to take charge and delegate shows us that strong leadership comes from confidence and the ability to guide others. She wasnât afraid to take control and make decisions, even when it ruffled some feathers.
Lesson: Being a leader means stepping up, even when it's tough, and knowing when to trust yourself to get things done.
So, what have we learned from the gang at Central Perk?
Your career doesnât need to follow a straight line. Be willing to pivot like Ross, start at the bottom like Rachel, own your confidence like Joey, communicate clearly to avoid any Ross-and-Rachel-level confusion, and embrace unpredictability like Phoebe.
With a little bit of humor and a lot of heart, your career can turn into something even better than you imaginedâjust like the lives of our favorite friends.
And remember: no one told you life was gonna be this way... (clap clap clap clap) đ¶
Friends | NBC Universal via Giphy
Tell Me SomethiNâgood
Girls who play sports turn into women who lead in the C-Suite. Now thatâs great news.
The Womenâs Sports Foundation published a groundbreaking study detailing the impact of sports on girls and women.
It dives deep into the skills, traits, and experiences developed in youth sports and how they connect to leadership outcomes later in adulthood. Here are some of the key findings:
womenssportsfoundation.org
Both early access to sports and participation during oneâs youth cultivate the skills that align with leadership emergence.
Women across the generations report sports provide the skills, traits, and experiences that align with the characteristics and demands of leadership.
Women who played sports fulfill a variety of leadership roles in adulthood across sectors.
There is a clear and positive relationship between years spent in youth and young adult sports and holding formal leadership titles in adulthood.
As two women who consider ourselves athletes, we couldnât agree more. Billie Jean King agrees with us too.
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